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Fall 2008
Labor Day typically means that summer is over and the kids are back to school.
Click on the links below to find tips for school, home, and more!
School Tips | Home Tips |
Shopping Tips |
Scripture & Encouragement |
Summer 2008 Resources
School Tips
When you meet with your child's teacher, make him aware of any
unusual circumstances: required medication, epi-pens for food
allergies, or any family relationships that may need clarification.
If your child splits time living between two locations, be sure the
teacher is aware, and ask if you can purchase an extra set of
workbooks to store at the second home.
All parents should be certain to update their child’s emergency
information, along with most current cell and work phone numbers. As
a precaution, it is important to communicate with school personnel
the names of those NOT allowed to pick your child up from school. The
office staff will not allow a child to go with a person not
previously identified, or someone named as not allowed to pick your
child up.
Give your emergency information to a good friend; ensure that she has
the teacher's names, bus numbers, bus route and driver’s name. This
information in the hands of a trusted friend could save valuable time
in an emergency.
Check your child's backpack often. See just how much he is carrying
around each day, and ask if the load is necessary. Explain that a
too-heavy backpack can cause back pain, and help him plan the best
route between classes to take advantage of his locker.
Home Tips
Set a routine to get the school year off to a good start!
All children seem to do better when they have a set schedule for
homework, snacks, bath time and free time. Children with ADD or ADHD
can use the benefit of labeled dresser drawers--this offers routine
and gives everything a place. Try putting names under the towel racks
in the bath room. This is a big help to those with difficulty
focusing.
Shari Lewis, the creator of the Lambchop puppet used to say, "The day
begins the night before." It is a huge help to have the clothes,
shoes and backpacks laid out before going to bed. Kids and adults
alike get off to a better start when morning decisions are minimal.
Let your child know you are thinking of her today: Enclose a smiley
face or note in the lunch box--little ones like their sandwiches cut
with a cookie cutter, so the picture changes often. (Note: this is
NOT appreciated with teenage boys!!)
To keep a smooth-running schedule, place a large erasable calendar in
an area where the family can see it easily. Record all doctor
appointments, sports events, music lessons, and due dates for special
projects and tests. Use different colors for each child's activities
to make it easy to read and follow.
As much as possible, eat dinner together every night. Even though
you, too, have worked all day and are tired, use this time to discuss
the day. Stay in touch with what is happening in your children's
lives. Turn the TV off for at least a 30 minute meal. Make it a
special treat to eat in front of the TV. Try this Crummy Chicken
recipe (link to recipe) you’re your next family dinner.
Kids are never too old to be "tucked in." They may balk at being
physically covered, but if you take a moment to say goodnight, pray,
let them know you love them and are praying for them, it can do
wonders for your relationship.
Sensational shells: Prolong your summer memories of the beach. Whiten
the shells in bleach and water, or just let them sit in the sun. Use
them in pretty containers or put them around small picture frames
with vacation photos.
Recipe Recommendation
Try Crummy chicken for a
quick, easy dish that is sure to be a hit with your kids.
Need a very unusual baby shower gift? Here's one that I have used
often and it has never been duplicated. On the day the baby is born,
make a tape of the 6:00 news. Give the tape to the new parents as it
will record headlines the day of the birth. It also shows
commercials, hair styles, and local newscasters. Use the same tape
year after year until the child is about 18.It's a fun activity after
each birthday party to review.
Shopping Tips
Super school buys: This is the time of year to take advantage of
school supply clearance sales. Stock up for the year by purchasing
folders, notebook and pencils; many stores will have them for as low
as 25 cents.
Now is a great time to buy shorts and swimsuits for next year. Allow
for plenty of growing room.
Scriptures and
Encouragement
Proverbs 1:7 - "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom."
Joshua 1:9 - "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do
not be terrified; do not be discouraged for the Lord your God will be
with you wherever you go." NIV
James 1:19 - "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow
to become angry." NIV
My daily comment when my son got out of the car for school..."Be a
Blessing!"
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